It’s natural to fear the unknown, especially death. No one really knows, for sure, what happens after we die. Well, that’s not really true. Many people have clinically died and then returned to life to tell about it. Reviewing their experiences will ease the fear death and you’ll learn more about how to communicate with your loved ones on the other side.
Below is an email to me about the topic and my response, including a simple way to communicate with loved ones on the Other Side.
“Hi Stephen, my boyfriend struggles a lot with death. His brother died four years ago in a home invasion attack. Also, several of his friends and family have died in the last few years from illness or suicide. What’s the best way to explain how death isn’t the end of our souls, and about the afterlife where we will see our loved ones again? I experienced validation from my mom who died and then visited me in a dream. Is there a way to enable my boyfriend to have that kind of validation, or a positive ghostly experience? Thanks, Laurie.”
I’m sorry your boyfriend has experienced so much grief, especially in such a short period.
One way to show him death isn’t the end, and about the afterlife, is for him to read about or watch near-death experience (NDE) accounts. As long as he’s open minded enough to consider the (extensive) evidence, it can give him hope he will see his loved ones again. He can search for NDE accounts on YouTube (avoid the ones sponsored by religious organizations that push a fear-based agenda), or read about NDEs here:
https://ndestories.org/stories/
https://www.nderf.org/Archives/exceptional.html
https://www.iands.org
It’s possible for your boyfriend to receive validation from his loved ones on the Other Side. One way is through a spiritual medium.
Another way to communicate loved ones on the Other Side is through the following steps:
1) Have faith your loved ones can hear you when you talk to them (this is a universal theme of 1000s of NDEs)
2) Spiritually protect yourself to avoid lower vibrational entities and spiritual tricksters (have no fear about them, as you are in a physical body and thus more powerful, but they can mislead you). Imagining a protective bubble of white light, like the bright sun surrounding you, is a good start. For more thorough spiritual protection, ask for help from Archangel Michael and other powerful and benevolent helpers (an extensive spiritual protection and clearing script is my free download of Your Soul Knows). https://dl.bookfunnel.com/sy4znbr1pc
3) Relax your mind to avoid thoughts and fears from interfering (I include easy steps to do this in Your Soul Knows). https://dl.bookfunnel.com/sy4znbr1pc
4) Have a conversation before bed with a loved one who died. Talk to them like they are physically there with you. Ask them to visit you in your dreams, and help you remember. Or ask for a sign that they can hear you.
Be patient. This may not work for you the first time, but with practice and faith in the process, you’ll eventually experience some kind of contact. The more spiritually sensitive you are, and/or the more often you meditate, the more you will perceive.
But even if you aren’t spiritually sensitive and you don’t make time to meditate, your love for souls you know on the Other Side, and exploring NDEs, will ease fears of death, awaken your soul, and help you remember that life after death is real.
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