“Hello Stephen, I have a deep spiritual connection with a woman. We’re both 30 years old and we’ve been friends for a few years. I think we’ve known each other for many lifetimes and spiritually and emotionally we are very similar. I want to take it to the next level, but there’s a problem. Sadly, our finances, family, and personal growth are in opposite states, and that caused her to block me on Facebook. We’ve had no contact for several months, but I can often sense she’s thinking about me. I’ve also received signs from my angels that she still acknowledges our connection. I connect with her telepathically every day and ask her to contact me. I have a friend who does love spells and might have him help me win her back. What else can I do and what does she need from me so we can be together? Blessings! Rodney”
Hi Rodney,
I understand why you feel the way you do; deep connections can stir up a lot of emotions. However, you need to be careful of overstepping spiritual boundaries.
Would you keep calling someone if they never called you back? Would you peep in someone’s windows and spy on them? Would you tap someone’s phone or computer and illegally access their text messages and emails? I hope not.
Spiritually, it’s the same. Thoughts are things and people sense, on some level, when you think about them. Connect with her spiritually once or twice to let her know the ball is in her court. But don’t continue to invade her energy if she isn’t hitting the ball back. Doing so is overstepping spiritual boundaries and being a spiritual pest.
Please do not use any love spells in an attempt to win her back. They are spiritual manipulation and will create some very bad karma for you.
After letting her know clearly how you feel and that you are interested, the best thing for you to do is let go. I repeat, let go. Every time you think of her, wish her well and then let go completely. It’s natural to still think of her often, so when you do, simply send her love and let go.
It may seem counterproductive, but this will help you and her. How? Doing so will not end the connection but free it to be what it’s meant to be (if anything). It will also ease the stress you feel about the situation.
Only after letting go will she be able to see you, herself, and the situation clearly. Only then will you do the same.
It won’t be easy to let go at first, but if you really want what’s best for her and yourself, you will.
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