“Life in Lubbock, Texas, taught me… that sex is the most awful, filthy thing on earth and you should save it for someone you love.”—Butch Hancock It’s not surprising many people think sex isn’t spiritual, and feel shame, guilt, or fear associated with it, when you consider the influence of some organized religions. Traditional religious
Your soul knows the answers to your dilemmas, challenges, and questions. But most of us are disconnected from our spiritual sides. It’s not our fault; we live in a society that focusses on the body and mind, but largely ignores the soul. And so many distractions in life cloud the connection. That’s why I’m excited
“Hi Stephen, I’m a 32 years old male in a happy loving relationship except I don’t feel like having sex anymore. But not just with my girlfriend, also when I picture having sex with someone else it doesn’t turn me on. This has been going on for nearly two years. We have sex but I always have to force myself to do it.”
Many religious leaders still proclaim that homosexuality is a sin, pointing to verses in the Bible or Koran which they interpret as proof to back their position (never mind they were written by fallible humans in different times). But what if there was proof from the other side that homosexuality isn’t really a sin, and
If you’ve had more than one sexual partner in your lifetime, you may have noticed that even if you find someone physically attractive, that alone isn’t enough to make the sex good. You may have also found that good looks don’t always mean the person is a good lover. In fact, very good-looking people are
Safe sex is important, but not many people think about or know how to avoid sexually transmitted toxic energy. In addition to physical contact, sex is an energy exchange. When you have sex it’s possible to absorb spiritual debris from the person’s energy field, whether or not you’re aware of or believe in any kind of energy exchange.
According to research by DrEd.com, Europeans cheat more than Americans. Almost 70% of American men and 60% of American women claim to have never cheated. 50% of European men and about 35% of European women declare they’ve always been faithful. As mentioned in the survey results, these numbers are self-reported, which means people are more
Why does sexual attraction fade? Scientists give neurological reasons. Psychologists give behavioral and personality reasons. But what about the spiritual reason sexual attraction fades? Based on many years of empirical research, I believe the soul and its history of past lives precede and greatly influence personality traits and current life circumstances. Likewise, a genuine sexual attraction
A new study indicates the porn addiction myth is related to religious guilt. The study looked at the role that religious belief and moral disapproval of porn play in the perceived addiction to internet porn. The results showed there was a “robust positive relationship between religiosity and perceived addiction to pornography and that this relationship was
Sex can be challenging for everyone, but sex is more challenging for the spiritually sensitive because in addition to needing a mental, emotional, and physical connection for good sex, they also need a harmonious spiritual connection. When you’re spiritually sensitive, the energy and karma dynamics between you and other people are much more obvious. You can’t just pretend everything is
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