If you’ve had more than one sexual partner in your lifetime, you may have noticed that even if you find someone physically attractive, that alone isn’t enough to make the sex good.
You may have also found that good looks don’t always mean the person is a good lover. In fact, very good-looking people are so used to being fawned over that it can sometimes cause them to be sexually lazy.
What makes sex great? All of the following can improve sex:
— Confidence
— Enthusiasm (not having sex only because you feel like you should)
— Being attracted to your partner and showing it
— Relaxing and enjoying it
— Heightened energy from a healthy diet and regular exercise
— Being interested in pleasing your partner
— Not being a starfish (just laying there)
— Showing your partner what you like
— Being respectful of yourself and your partner (including safe sex)
— Understanding that it’s about the energy connection, the mutual chemistry, not just sexual acts
But even with all of the above, sometimes sex between two people doesn’t feel right or flow no matter what they do.
In such cases, it may be their energy connection, which includes karma from past lives together. If it’s not harmonious, it will kill the sexual attraction and nothing will override it in the long run.
The hidden key for great sex is a great sexual connection, and it’s either there or it isn’t; unfortunately, you can’t create or fake it if it isn’t. That’s one reason why I don’t recommend waiting until marriage to have sex, since you need more than one sexual experience to compare it to, and you won’t know how the sexual chemistry is until you actually sleep with someone.
Copyright © 2016 Stephen Petullo
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